Working for yourself often means you work a pretty crazy schedule. There is always a list (usually a very long one!) of things you feel you personally must get done to keep your business/career going and growing and it can take up all your time. But never lose track of why you are doing this … to live a life by your own terms, one that you enjoy. Don’t let it become the ‘job’ that takes over your life so your life is your work and there is no living outside of it.

Taking time out is one of the hardest things for me, a consummate workaholic, to do. Which makes it all the more necessary that I have a plan for not working as well as for work.

I have a couple of rules, some which you may find apply to you but most likely you will need to devise your own to fit what you need out of your life. The important thing is to have a plan, schedule it like any other appointment, and keep it. It’s necessary for your sanity, your energy level, your creativity, and your relationships.

My Rule #1 is that I take time out at least three nights a week to spend time with my significant other doing nothing in particular—just being focused on us is what is important.

My Rule #2 is that one day a week, I don’t have any work scheduled. I often end up working a bit here and there—catching up on correspondence over morning coffee or networking but just to chat. The key thing is, I don’t make a work list and I give myself no work obligations. This is commonly Sunday because it’s usually the one day clients won’t write or call. Usually. I try to get together with friends on this day.

My Rule #3 is that at least once every three  months, I get out of town. Strangely enough I am very good at not working while on vacation. I don’t know why but it’s the reason I require that I get out of town—I know I will just relax and forget about all I have waiting for me because there is nothing I can do away from the office and studio. It gives me time to recharge and the experience boosts my creativity.

What are your rules for keeping your life balanced?

If you don’t have any specific rules, make some. They can be guidelines like mine above or work hours that you diligently adhere to. It doesn’t matter. As long as you take time out for you and for the ones closest to you. And that you go experience life.